It’s not a secret that with the flow of time even the most passionate couples lose that magic fire between them. Even if their feelings are alive they are so to say used to every part of the spouse’s body. In such conditions having sex becomes some kind of ritual - dull and necessary. If you want to add some spiciness to your sexual life - modern industry can offer you a variety of sex toys. These will provide you with a fresh stream of emotions and your loving person will surely appreciate your attempt to improve the relationship. To pick a suitable sex toy for both of you is an important issue. If you’re shy to ask whether your partner wants to try anything invite him or her to look through the websites that sell sex toys. Ask your partner what he would like to try and surprise him.

There exist an enormous variety of sex toys, from vibrators till articles stimulating G-Spot. You should decide what kind of sex toy attracts you - what color, shape or material are seducing and interesting for you.

If speaking about the materials, you should know that here you have a great variety to pick of: silicone, jelly, rubber and plastic are the most widespread materials, however your choice is not limited by them - toys of such materials as metal, vinyl, leather, cyber skin, acrylic and lucite are also at your disposal.

Another important issue is to decide whether you want to play with a sex toy alone, or involve your partner. If you are a beginner in this it is better to start with something modest - for example with a vibrator. If you or your lady need extra stimulation to reach orgasm vibrator is exactly what you need. They may be of different kinds: anal, G-spot and clitoral. Vibrator will stimulate tenderly the needed zone, giving your lady a terrific chance to reach unforgettable orgasm during your intercourse.

2. Use condoms. Sharing of a sex toy is very likely to lead to infections. You should keep in mind that this sex toy is used both anally and vaginally – thus the bacteria from the anus can be easily transmitted to the vagina. Put a condom on your sex toy and all problems will be solved. What is more, thus you will make cleaning of your sex toy much easier!

Share your pleasure with your partner!

A double-ended dildo is a penis-shaped sex toy both ends of which are designed for penetration. Double-ended dildos are presented in a fantastic variety of materials, textures and colors.

A double-ended dildo is a unique sex toy, because it can be used by both homosexual and heterosexual couples.

Heterosexual couples use this sex toy in the positions “vagina to anus” or “anus to anus”. This implies that in the first position the male partner inserts the sex toy in the anus while the female partner inserts one of the ends of the sex toy in the vagina. The other way to use this sex toy: both partners insert the end of the sex toy in the anus.

Lesbian couples can use the double-ended dildo in a variety of positions. Both partners can insert the sex toy in the anus, both partners can insert the sex toy in the vagina or one of the partners can insert the sex toy in the vagina while the other – in the anus.

It is understood that gay couples can use this sex toy only in one position – anus to anus.

A double-ended dildo can be used for solo play as well. A man can use this sex toy for anal stimulation while a woman can bend it for dual penetration – i.e she can use this sex toy for simultaneous anal and vaginal penetration.

Hands-Free Dildos

Suction-cup dildos are dildos that allow you to enjoy hands-free stimulation. This is possible due to suction cup with help of which you can fix the sex toy to any flat surface – to the floor or to the wall. Such dildos are usually used for solo play.

Hands-free vibrators

Butterfly vibrators are ones of the most popular female sex toys. With this sex toy a woman can stimulate her clitoris hands-free. The device is usually shaped as a butterfly, or sometimes other creature and features straps that help to hold the sex toy in place. This sex toy can be used for solo play: only this device for clitoral orgasm or the vibe can be used together with a dildo or some other insertable sex toy for dual stimulation and for even double orgasm. As well it can be used during sex with a partner – this sex toy is especially nice for those who need added clitoral stimulation during the intercourse.

The other type of hands-free clitoral vibrator is vibrating panty. This sex toy looks like ordinary piece of lingerie, but it has a secret – a vibrating bullet and remote control that makes the panty vibrate at one push of the button.

Vibrating cock rings are also cute sex toys for those who need added stimulation during the intercourse. This sex toy is intended to place on the base of the penis. Due to vibrating bullet it vibrates and stimulates the penis and testicles of male partner and clitoris of female partner. The sex toy has one more important effect – it traps the blood in the penis and thus delays orgasm and prolongs intercourse!

1. Delay orgasm. Do not hurry, the later you achieve orgasm, the stronger it will be. Try to vary your play, for instance this way: turn off the shaft and leave the clitoral ticker turned on. Place the tickler on your clitoris and enjoy clitoral massage. When you feel you are about to climax, turn on the shaft and insert it into vagina. Explosive orgasm is guaranteed!

2. Stimulate your other erogenous zones. A rabbit vibrator is a multifunctional sex toy, it is not designed for genital stimulation only. Try to use the sex toy anally: thus you will have powerful anal stimulation and very pleasurable stimulation of labia. If you want vaginal stimulation after anal, than put a condom on the shaft and take it off after anal stimulation. As well you can stimulate nipples with rabbit vibrator.

3. Enjoy deep penetration. You can do that if you get on your fours – thus penetration will be very deep. The other good position for deep penetration is this one: lay on your back with legs up.

4. Press the toy. Insert the shaft into the vagina and let the tickler massage your clitoris. Then put the legs together and squeeze the shaft in the vagina. This position allows hands-free use of the rabbit vibrator.

5. Let your partner use the toy. Rabbit vibrator is not a purely female sex toy. A man also can use it for stimulation of his erogenous zones, for instance for testicle stimulation.

6. Use sex lubricant. Keep in mind that the vibe, unlike penis does not have natural stimulation. Put a little sex lubricant on the sex toy for better glide. Make sure your lubricant is compatible with the material of the vibrator. Water-based lubricants are compatible with all sex toy materials.

7. Clean the sex toy properly. Each material requires a specific cleaning. Get to know more about the material of your sex toy. Take the batteries out before cleaning.

One of the nicest non-vibrating women’s sex toys are dildos that are presented in a fantastic variety:

Realistic dildos are penis-shaped sex toys the main function of which is deep and lustful penetration. These dildos look and feel like real penis. You can select a longer or a shorter dildo, a dildo with testicles or without, a double-ended dildo that is designed for double penetration, a curved dildo for stimulation of G-spot or a suction-cup dildo that allows hands-free stimulation.

Another nice non-vibrating women’s sex toys are vaginal balls. This sex toy looks like a pair of balls (or more) connected with a thread. This sex toy is intended to insert in the vagina for having very pleasurable sensations provided by the balls.

The balls are usually filled with beads that provide very pleasurable natural vibrations. These sex toys do not only provide pleasure. With vaginal balls a woman can train her pelvic muscles in order to make the vagina tighter. Trained vaginal muscles provide more pleasure during sexual intercourse for you and your partner!

As well a woman can enjoy using a butt plug. Butt plugs are non-vibrating anal sex toys that provide very pleasurable sensation of fullness in the anus. You can have a butt plug inside while having sex with a partner, or you can have it in the anus while walking, shopping or doing other things.

Have fun with non-vibrating women’s sex toys!

First of all this can be any non-vibrating sex toy. Non-vibrating sex toys, such as dildos, anal probes, vaginal balls and others are absolutely waterproof, these can be used anywhere and in any conditions.

If you want to have water solo play with a vibrating sex toy you should choose a waterproof vibrator. There are plenty of waterproof vibrators that can be safely used in the water. Which one to choose is only the matter of personal preference. This can be a traditional vibe that stimulates your vaginal sensitive areas with vibrating shaft, you can choose a rabbit vibrator that together with shaft has a clitoral stimulator. You can play with a clitoral vibe or with a vibrating anal sex toy – this is you who decides what kind of pleasure to have. Many of these adult sex toy are multifunctional and multispeed – you can experiment with patterns of vibrations and with speed of vibrations!

A very nice adult sex toy for water play is a vibrating sponge.

These sponges look like ordinary ones with a secret inside – a bullet that vibrates providing you with enormous pleasure! The main advantage of these adult sex toys that these really do not look like adult sex toys!

If you want to have pleasure in secret you should choose a quiet a adult sex toy, the one that does not vibrate loudly!

Keep in mind that all insertable sex toys require lubrication. Water-based lubricants cannot be used in water since these are water soluble. The best choice for water play is a silicone-based lubricant, but do be aware that silicone-based lubricants are not compatible with all sex toy materials. Make sure your sex toy can be used with a silicone-based lubricant!